I was active on WP in the “early days” and quickly realised that it is an American thing… American culture, language, etiquette prevails… still some British stalwarts still row with them, and inevitably get banned.

The mistake most people make is to treat forums with respect! They get a bit territorial and fall into the trap of rowing with people who venerate the forum and use it as their main social hub – don’t waste your life on it!